'Sex' Articles
Kama sutra. In the native tongue of India, Kama means sex/love, and yama means death. The French call orgasm ‘la petite morte’, because of the physical symptoms being like death; spasming, violent gasping and expulsion of breath, sometimes even loss of consciousness.
Many women detach during physical sex. Women often developed the capacity to detach, unplug, because they weren’t originally engaged and are just dumped on by the male ego. Sex should be likened to an ancient religious ritual, much passion and focus, showing respect for the moment and space.
Sex is all too common in virtual worlds like Second Life. It’s not very well thought out, and not actually considered or created, just re-visited. This is why it manifests as addiction. It’s like pounding your hand with a hammer believing that will make it stop hurting. In the long run it will, because it will be destroyed. This is why sex can seem degrading. It’s depth and substance are not understood or are ignored.
There is a mechanism behind it. A way and process. A purpose. The taboo notion arises from the limited shallow view of it.
“Sex ran in him like the sea” John Masefield (British poet, 1878-1967)
Everything is Sex
This may sound absurd, but everything is sex. It’s been in the Egyptian Book of the Dead. It’s in the Pantheons of the Gods. Life and death. Fire and earth. It is all sex. Sex is the cycle of creation and destruction. It is the most primal human instinct, and all others stem from it. Energy, passion, all spiritual forces, stem from the mystery that for lack of a better term is sex, and it is a mystery. We all seek it, and yet we also avoid it. We all want it, but we don’t really want it. It’s perhaps… Seek More
Mind Sex
It’s an established fact that the mind cannot tell the difference between something vividly imagined and a literal event. They have even discovered something that totally surprised them. They call it mind sex. It has been explored in psychology rather fully, because they didn’t believe it was possible. You can without any form of mechanical activity have your body/mind complete the entire arousal cycle. I have heard people in the online virtual world of Second Life (SL) say that sex in SL isn’t real. It’s just role play. I totally disagree. The majority of what happens even in literal embrace… Seek More
Eros is Your Spirit
This sculpture exemplifies energy transference between a “Couple”. The consuming being mutual, each consuming the other. This transference is continual regardless if it is sexual or not (erotic). by Trinity Hunghi Eros is your spirit. Eros is forever your spirit. Psyche is your memory. It’s your learning, your skills and self expression, and ideally they are coupled. Not to be gross, but whenever a pathogen invades you it isn’t seeking your death. Your death kills it. It’s seeking symbiosis, life feeding life, as in this sculpture. If you would seek sexual intercourse without an intension of synergy, you are denying… Seek More
First Sexuality
Why is it we can be open with a lover, but not with a parent? I have learned not to tell my Mom anything. Actually, that’s simple. It is one of the dark truths I don’t talk much on, because people get really inflamed. Are you familiar with Freud or Jung? They both sort of glossed the issue of sexuality. I’m not suggesting anything that people might think I am, but there are primal forces that are in us, and our traditions don’t teach us to understand. That threw my mom into severe fits of embarrassment. She turned beet red.… Seek More
Sexual Compulsions
Insane sexual compulsions actually form the substance of our social morals. How do they do that? Let’s look at the basic unwritten male/female agreement. Males are supposedly the natural aggressors, and supposedly this holds true in all things. Women are supposedly the nest makers, to be sought and have their lives and bodies “invaded”. Kind of instinctively? There is some instinct here. Some. Hard to recognize though, because it’s twisted around “humanity”. Ideas people have of being human and how they are supposedly different from animals. Child protection is done by males. In most bird species the male is the… Seek More
